Caution & Confidence: The Balance
by Cassidy Gillard
Risk, when it comes to mountain boarding, is a very intricate thing. There are two ways to approach risky situations: confidence and caution. I find myself teaching kids how to combine the two, rather than using one or the other. Generally, confidence needs to be built, however I find myself occasionally having to help kids tone down their confidence, and add a little more caution into their riding.
At mountain boarding, I celebrate caution as much as (if not more than) confidence. Some kids come to the mountain boarding course for the first time, or the fifteenth time, and just stand on a board without moving. And every time they do that, we celebrate. They get a high five, they are praised for their bravery, and they have the option to try moving or not. Sometimes, kids don’t even try standing on a mountain board until their fifteenth time coming to the course. Caution has the ability to build confidence if we celebrate it.
If a kid doesn’t want to ride, I absolutely talk to them about it. And then I offer the option of just trying all the protective gear on, just to see how it feels. If I get them that far, there is a much higher chance that they will get on a board. As we’re padding up I’ll check all of their gear, knocking on their knee pads, making sure they have the “best ones,” and allowing them to feel comfortable and protected. Once they’ve got all the gear on, they are allowed to stand on a board if they want. I’ll bring a board out onto the course, sometimes it takes them a little while to even step onto the board. I reassure them that the board won’t move unless they want it to. And sometimes they decide they want to stand on the board, and then they get out there and they decide not to. And they still get a high five. They’re analyzing something that feels risky to them, and making decisions about their safety. This caution deserves praise.
Overconfident kids will fall over and over and over again because they believe that they should be able to land a jump. Instead of thinking about their stance and their approach, they begin to think about the fact that they can’t land their trick. They quickly go from having too much confidence to having none at all. They’ll keep hitting the jump, and keep leaning back too far, and keep landing off balance, and keep falling down. So in these moments of frustration, when their confidence is suddenly at a low, I have them go back to the basics. Do a run or a trick that they’ve done a million times. Do something they’ve already perfected. Get their calm back. Regain their confidence. Once they have their confidence backwhen they go back to try that trick that they struggled with over and over againmost kids perfect it right away.